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建议 Build a Positive Attitude With the 4 Day Attitude Diet
A Positive Attitude Increases Success
Hold up your thumb and forefinger about 2-1/2 inches apart. It takes about 1/100th of a second for Olympians to run that distance in the 100-meter race. But that’s the difference between winning and losing.
In the women's 100-meter dash at the 1992 Barcelona Olympic Games, for example, the gold medal was won by an American who crossed the line only 2-1/2 inches in front of her closest opponent. Fifth place went to a Jamaican who finished a mere 6/100th of a second behind her. And yet that little bit of difference made all the difference in the world.
The same goes for attitude. When you compare age, gender, upbringing, education, IQ, and just about any other factor you can think of, research says that positive attitude is the little bit of difference that makes all the difference in success in both your personal and professional lives. In fact, the research makes it clear that attitude is more important than any other element when it comes to ensuring success.
So how do you build a positive attitude that ensures your success?
Just follow this "4-Day Attitude Diet", focusing on a different skill each day. And repeat the cycle until you’ve built an invincible attitude. It works!
Positive Attitude Diet Day 1: Fill your mind with positives.
Instead of living your life on autopilot, letting any and all thoughts come into your mind, consciously feed your mind positive input. Do this on the first day of every week, and do it throughout the day. Read inspirational books; listen to uplifting music, or call an upbeat person. And by all means, avoid the cynics and gripers.
Keep a journal and write down 50 wonderful things that happen to you on Day 1. Include even small things... like finding a quarter on the sidewalk... or a stranger greeting you with a cheerful "good morning." After awhile, you’ll realize that most of the things that happen in your life are positive.
Positive Attitude Diet Day 2: Affirm yourself.
To build a positive attitude you must remind yourself of past victories. Congratulate yourself on the good you have done and will do. And refuse to let any self-doubt enter your mind. Just tell yourself over and over, "I am filled with confidence, and I am competent."
And when you make a mistake, learn the lesson in that mistake and laugh at yourself. In fact people who can't laugh at themselves are not only more negative, but they’re also more susceptible to cancer, stroke, and heart disease. So laugh... and affirm the fact you’re learning and growing.
Of course you may have some doubts about yourself. But on day 2, literally, consciously feed yourself with positive affirmations. As boxing champ Sugar Ray Robinson said, "To be a champ, you have to believe in yourself when nobody else will." And Dolly Parton added, "I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know that I'm not dumb... and I also know that I'm not blonde."
Positive Attitude Diet Day 3: Think only good things about people.
Don't allow ill thoughts to enter your mind. Look for something you like in everyone you meet. One person might have a great smile, and another one might be extremely dedicated to his work. You can always find something you like.
Of course, you may think this a rather Pollyannaish activity... especially if you’re working with some very difficult people. No problem. Simply see these people as giving you an opportunity to learn patience and practice assertiveness. That’s something you can like.
Positive Attitude Diet Day 4: Speak only positive words.
In order to build and maintain a positive attitude, you must speak hopefully about everything -- your job, your customers, your manager, your employees, your children, your health, and your future. Go out of your way to talk optimistically about everything.
You may have to talk yourself out of uttering negative words. If, for instance, the man at the front of the company cafeteria line seems to be holding up everyone else, you'll be tempted to make a snide remark to the person next to you. Don't do it. Instead, say, "It's kind of nice not to rush every single minute of the day."
When you have a positive attitude, you refuse to use a loser’s language. If you talk like a loser, you’ll end up losing. As George Schultz, the former U.S. Secretary of State said, "The minute you start talking about what you're going to do if you lose, you have lost."
And Now The Challenge: Start Building a Positive Attitude Today.
Nothing... absolutely nothing... contributes more to your success than your attitude. The good news is you can have a powerful, positive attitude... if you get on the 4-Day Attitude Diet. I’ve seen it work for thousands. Now it’s your turn。
4天态度餐—建立积极态度
把你的拇指和食指举起,保持2—1/2英尺的距离。100米跑中,奥运会运动员能用1/100秒跑完这个距离。但这就是成功跟失败的区别。
1992年巴塞罗纳奥运会女子100米比赛中,比如,一位美国选手冲刺时只超过了离她最近的对手2-1/2英尺摘得桂冠。一位牙买加选手比她落后6/100秒,获得第五名。失之毫厘,差之千里。
态度也一样。当你比较年龄,性别,家庭,教育,智商和所有你能想到的因素,研究表明积极的态度在你的个人和职业生涯获得成功的决定性因素。
事实上,研究已经清楚表明了要想成功,态度比其他任何因素都重要。
那怎样建立有助成功的积极态度呢?跟着“4天态度餐”练习,每天集中精力训练一个不同的技巧。不停地重复直到形成永久的不可战胜的态度。很有用的。
积极态度套餐第一天:让你的头脑充满积极
不能放任你的生活,任由所有的想法跑到你脑海你。你要有意识地往头脑里灌输积极的东西。每周第一天这样做,坚持一整天。比如读励志的书,听励志的音乐,或跟一个乐观的人通电话。最重要的是要避免偾世疾俗的和爱发牢骚的人。
准备一个本子,记下第一天发生的50件很棒的事情,包括很小的事情在内,比如在人行道上捡到25美分,或者有个陌生人很高兴地跟你说“早上好!”一段时间后,你会发现,其实发生在你生活中的事绝大多数是积极的。
积极态度餐第二天:肯定自己
要建立积极态度,你必须用过去的胜利提醒自己。祝贺自己已经做成的事和将要做成的事,并且决绝任何的自我怀疑思想进入你的脑海。只要不断地对自己说,“我充满自己,我能行!”
当你犯错误时,从错误中总结经验并嘲笑自己。事实上,无法嘲笑自己的人不只是更消极,而且更容易患癌症、中风和心脏病。因此,笑一下自己吧,肯定你从错误中学习和成长的事实。
当然,你肯定对自己有些疑惑的。但是积极态度餐的第二天,有意识地让自己充满积极的自我肯定。就象拳击冠军Sugar Ray Robinson说的,“想拿冠军,你必须相信自己,即使全世界都不相信你。”Donlly Parton补充说,“当别人开金发笨女郎的玩笑时,我一点都不生气。因为我知道我既不笨也不金发。”(dumb and blonde是个俚语,用来形容金发女郎虽然漂亮但很笨)
积极态度餐第三天:只想人好的一面
不要让坏想法进入你的脑海。尽量看到你遇到的每个人的好。一个人也许笑得很美,另一个可能工作超努力。在任何一个人身上,你总能发现你喜欢得东西。
当然,你也许会觉得这是个过于乐观得活动,特别是当你和难以相处的人一起共事时。没问题!只要简单地把这些人看做是给了你一个机会去增加你的耐心和人性就好了。这就是你喜欢的东西。
积极态度餐第四天:说话时用积极的词
为了建立和保持积极的态度,你必须充满希望地谈论一切—你的工作,你的客户,你的经理,你的雇员,你的孩子,你的健康,你的未来。赶紧脱离消极的谈论方式吧!
你可能要说服自己放弃使用绝对消极的词语。例如,如果公司点餐队伍前面的男人挡住了其他人的话,你会忍不住向旁边的人讽刺地评价他。别这么做!想反,你要说的是“要不这么争分夺秒就好了。”
当你有了积极的态度,你拒绝使用失败者的语言。如果你像个失败者一样说话,你最终将失败。如前美国国务卿George Schultz所说,“从你开始谈论你要做的事情会不会失败那一刻起,你就已经失败了。”
现在开始接受挑战:从今天开始建立一个积极的态度
对成功而言,绝对没有任何东西比态度更重要。好在如果你开始“4天态度餐”的话,你可以获得一个有力的积极的态度。我看到过它对上千人很有效。现在轮到你了。
