Career Lessons from Eliot Spitzer’s Call Girl, Ashley Dupre
In the train wreck of Eliot Spitzer’s political career, there are many workplace lessons. And lots of people are talking about Spitzer’s career. But what about the call girl?
Ashley Dupre, who was Kristen in bed, was no slouch in the career management department. Sure, her breasts are plastered all over the Internet, but don’t be so ignorant as to think you can’t learn from someone like her. Here are three lessons.
1. Invest money in your career.
I write a lot about how when you don’t have disposable income, you still need to spend money on your career so you can earn more money.I have paid for career coaching with my last dollar. I have bought clothes on credit to look like I belong in the position I was interviewing for. All good investments.
But when I wrote about how I got my teeth whitened for TV even though I was unemployed, so many money mavens complained to me that it was irresponsible spending. People constantly undervalue the return on investment you get from taking risks to invest in your own career.
So, Ashley goes to New York with basically no money, and the first big money she makes, what does she do with it? Breast implants! How smart of her! The implants cost about $3000, but after that, she can make $4000 an hour from guys like Spitzer. She made back her investment in an hour, everything else is profit.
2. Know what you are really selling.
You know why most people have terrible resumes? They can’t figure out what they really bring to the table. If you really know what you are selling, then most of your resume is not going to be relevant. But people get mixed up about what they are selling. And they start just selling what they think they should be selling that second instead of analyzing the situation.
So Ashley figured out that she was having sex with the Governor of New York. In fact, a few women in her prostitution ring knew. They could have sold their story to the New York Post, but you know what? They make more money as call girls. It’s not uncommon for a call girl to bring in $200,000 a year, and the perks are great—trips to Paris with billionaires, for example.
Once a call girl tells on a client, her career is over. Because, as Melissa Gira Grantpoints out, call girls aren’t selling sex, they are selling discretion. Of course a guy like Spitzer could get a mistress, no problem. He’s not great looking, but being the Governor of New York makes up for that. But the mistress is dangerous—she could talk.In a call girl, you buy discretion.
3. If you have two careers, make sure they have synergy.
A lot of people have two careers. It’s a way to earn money and do what you love. It’s a way to hedge your bets. It’s just that you need two careers that somehow make sense together. If you want to be a lawyer, side work as a hooker is not a good idea. But Dupre wants to be a singer. And it’s expensive to live in New York to build a singing career. So the hooker/singer combination is a decent idea just on that alone.
But look at the synergy after the Spitzer fallout: everyone goes to her MySpace page to see what she looks like, and then they notice she has music. More than four million people have heard her singing. And at this point, she’s earned $200,000 in a month from downloads.
So look, it’s not great that Dupre is stuck in court right now. But she did a lot of things right when it came to her career, and to be honest, Spitzer’s political aspirations will tank from the call-girl-brouhaha.But Dupre’s dreams of a singing career will probably be fine. If she had any talent to begin with.
艾略特.斯皮策的政治生涯因为召妓丑闻划上句号,在这其中,有一些可以为职场人士所借鉴的地方。很多人都在讨论斯皮策的政治前途,而他找的小姐又有怎样的职业生涯呢?
虽然Ashley Dupre在床上是个风骚女,但是她在职业生涯管理这方面却并非蠢人。不错,她那丰满胸部的图片现在贴得满互联网都是,但是不要因为这个就轻看了她。即使从这种人的身上,你也能有所收获。这里就有三大经验:
1.为自己的职业投资
我曾经写过,即使你没有太多余钱,你仍然要为自己的职业生涯投资,这样才能够赚得更多。为了找职业顾问,我花光了最后一块钱。我借钱买衣服以使自己看上去符合面试职位的要求。这些都是好的投资。
但是,当我说我还没有工作的时候,为了上电视而去洗牙,许多投资专家都表示反对,认为这是不负责任的花费。当你冒着风险为职业生涯投资的时候,人们通常都会低估投资所带来的回报。
这不,Ashley刚到纽约的时候几乎是一文不名。当她赚到第一笔钱的时候,她该怎么花呢?隆胸!你看她有多高明!隆胸手术花了她3000美金,但是之后她却可以从斯皮策这些家伙的身上赚到一小时4000美金!她只用了一小时就翻本了,其他都是净赚。
2. 找到自己的真正卖点
你能想到为什么许多人的简历不堪卒读吗?因为他们根本就没有找到可以摆上台面的东西。如果你真的知道自己的卖点,简历的大部分其实不是很有关系。但是人们经常把这些卖点混在一起。他们在简历开头处写一些自认为颇有卖点的东西,接下来就开始分析状况。
Ashley对此很明确,她跟纽约州州长有一腿。事实上,她的姐妹圈子里有几个人知道这件事。她们原本可以把这些消息卖给《纽约邮报》,但是你知道发生什么吗?作为应召女郎她们赚得更多了。一个应召女郎每年赚20万美元并不是什么稀奇事,而且还有额外的好处,比如说,跟亿万富翁去巴黎游玩一趟。
要是哪个应召女郎泄漏了客户的消息,她的职业生涯就玩完了。正如Melissa Gira Grant所指出的,应召女郎不是做皮肉生意,而是靠小心谨慎赚钱。像斯皮策这样的人当然会有情妇,但这不是问题。他的长相确实不怎么样,但是纽约州长的头衔弥补了这个缺憾。然而,情妇是危险的,因为她可能会泄密。应召女郎就不同了,因为她们很小心谨慎。
3. 如果你有两份职业,确保它们具有协同效应
许多人都从事两份职业。这是在赚钱同时兼顾个人爱好的方法。这也是规避风险的方法。只不过你需要确保它们是互为裨益的。如果你想成为律师,把妓女当成副业肯定不是好主意。但是Ashley Dupre想当歌手。想在纽约发展歌手的职业生涯是异常昂贵的。就这点而言,妓女+歌手的组合是很好的搭配。
但是,看看斯皮策的丑闻所带来的协同效应:所有人都跑到Ashley Dupre在MySpace的网页上去看她到底长得如何,然后大家发现她居然还唱歌。已经有超过4百万人听过她的歌声。仅靠歌曲下载,她每个月就有20万美元入帐。
所以呢,Ashley Dupre继续以前的工作不是个好主意。但是她已经为自己的职业生涯做了很多事,而且,坦白地说,斯皮策的政治抱负将在这次的召妓丑闻中倾覆。而Ashley Dupre则很可能会去追逐自己的歌星梦,如果她真的有什么天赋的话。
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